Episode 022 – Conquering Self-Doubt

In today’s episode, we’re tackling that pesky enemy, self-doubt!

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Transcript

Hello Navigators. Welcome to Writer Roadmap, the podcast for writers seeking inspiration, guidance, and support on their creative journey. I’m your host, Holly Lyne, and today, we’re addressing a shadow that often lurks in the minds of writers: self-doubt.

Self-doubt is like an uninvited guest at the writing table. It whispers questions and insecurities, casting shadows on our brightest ideas. Whether you’re a seasoned author or just starting to dip your toes into the literary waters, self-doubt can be a persistent challenge. So, how do we confront and overcome it?

Understanding Self-Doubt

Before we can conquer self-doubt, it’s essential to understand its roots. At its core, self-doubt in writers often arises from a place of fear and comparison. Let’s break that down:

Fear of Rejection: This is a big one. The fear that our work will not be accepted, appreciated, or understood can be paralysing. It’s a vulnerability to put our inner thoughts and stories out there, and the potential for rejection can fuel self-doubt.

Comparison with Others: In our connected world, it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of comparing our writing journey with others’. Seeing the success or the perceived ease of other writers can make us question our own abilities and worth.

Internalizing Past Critiques: Sometimes, a harsh critique, whether from a teacher, a peer, or a reviewer, can stick with us. We might internalize it, allowing it to shape our self-perception as writers.

Perfectionism: The desire to create something flawless can be a double-edged sword. While striving for excellence is admirable, perfectionism can lead to a constant sense of inadequacy and never feeling quite ‘good enough.’

Personal Insecurities: Often, our self-doubt in writing is a reflection of broader insecurities. It might be tied to our self-esteem, our sense of identity, or past experiences that have nothing to do with writing itself.

Recognizing these sources of self-doubt is crucial because it allows us to address the problem at its root. It’s not just about pushing through but understanding and healing these underlying issues. When we start to untangle these threads, we can begin to see our writing and ourselves in a clearer, more confident light.

Overcoming Self-Doubt

Now that we have a deeper understanding of where self-doubt comes from, let’s explore how we can overcome it…

Positive Self-Talk: Our inner critic can be harsh. Start by changing the narrative in your head. For every negative thought, counter it with a positive affirmation about your writing.

Set Realistic Goals: Sometimes, self-doubt arises from setting unattainable goals. Break down your writing goals into smaller, manageable tasks, and celebrate each achievement.

Embrace the Learning Process: Every word you write is a step forward in your journey. Instead of fearing mistakes, view them as learning opportunities.

Connect with Other Writers: Join writing groups or online communities. Sharing your fears and hearing others’ experiences can be incredibly validating and encouraging.

Seek Constructive Feedback: Instead of shying away from feedback, embrace it. Constructive criticism can guide your growth and boost your confidence in your writing.

Remember Your ‘Why’: Reconnect with the reason you started writing. Whether it’s a love for storytelling or a message you want to share, let that passion be louder than any doubt.

Remember, Navigators, self-doubt is a common part of the creative process, but it doesn’t define your worth as a writer. Each time it arises, acknowledge it, challenge it, and then, let your passion for writing guide you forward.

As we wrap up this episode, I encourage you to step back into your writing space with renewed confidence.

If you’d like to join a growing community of writers away from the noise and stress of social media, Julia Scott has founded a new online writing community called The Write Place. Check it out via the link in the show notes.

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